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Before They Breakup With You Do This
Can you save a relationship that is on the verge of a breakup?
Although it’s hard to do, many people try to save in their relationships at the time when it’s unlikely the love will survive. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been together for years, or are not technically ‘together’, when someone you care about pulls away it hurts.
Your relationship is on the rocks, you can feel it. Suddenly, you are desperate to fix issues that should have been addressed months before. You never want a relationship with someone more than when they act like they don’t want one with you.
This might be part of human nature but most single men and women don’t want to admit that they want a relationship at all. It seems desperate. Others just don’t know what they want or who they want it with.
If you’re dating and you don’t know what you want then any relationship you engage in will have a shelf life.
The insecurity to which most adults date is their way of avoiding pain and heartache. Playing to win and playing not to lose are very different. If you want to avoid ever being dumped then you have to learn how to play to win in the dating game.
