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How To Choose The Right Man For Marriage

The Dating Truth
4 min readFeb 26, 2021

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A woman’s right to choose has been challenged in many arenas — none so frustrating than in dating. The history of marriage isn’t a happy one for women. Whether they were sold off as child brides, promised from birth to wed, or pressured by culture, the idea of a woman choosing a man for marriage is somewhat of a fairytale.

Imagine Rapunzel actually declining the Prince and just saying, ‘Ah I’ll wait for the next guy, thanks.’ Unfortunately, the idea that a woman chooses her husband is a novelty. Even in the modern era of women’s empowerment, when it comes to love and dating women rarely feel like the ‘choosers’.

If you’re a single woman and you want to be married, the ONLY way to find the right husband is to choose.

Dump The Less Qualified

Walking away from potential can sometimes feel hard. Not every man you meet do you need to give a “chance” but there are some men who are close to qualified but just not it. If you were to think of finding a husband like finding a job then the fastest way to the right candidate is to ditch the less qualified.

The challenge for most women is knowing whether someone is qualified to be a loving husband or not.

There are two ways:

  • He wants to be

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The Dating Truth
The Dating Truth

Written by The Dating Truth

I’m Fauna Solomon the founder of The Dating Truth a digital resource for dating advice. We offer the most diverse advice on modern dating available.

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