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HOW TO DATE AN INTROVERT AND HOW TO SPOT THEM
Introversion and extraversion are probably one of the most misunderstood concepts in the dynamics of personality traits. Someone who is introverted if often confused with someone who is shy. While someone who is extraverted is often mistaken as someone constantly seeking attention.
This would lead one to believe that you can easily spot an introvert — the quiet person sitting alone in the corner of the room or an extravert — the person holding court in the center of the party. These descriptions are wildly over generalized. The personality of an introvert and an extravert aren’t as polar as many people think. This is why those who are introverted tend to confuse many people that date them. If you are dating an introvert or are interested in dating someone who is introverted there are a few characteristics that you should be aware of.
How to Spot an Introvert
Introverts aren’t always the shy loner portrayed in movies. The one being dragged to parties and social settings. In fact, many introverted people enjoy being around people even if they aren’t engaging with anyone in particular.
Check the sidelines
Introverts do go to parties, but their way of interacting at social gatherings is distinct. An introvert can mix and mingle and meet new…