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How to Influence Women and Get a Girlfriend

The Dating Truth
4 min readFeb 6, 2020

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Before I dive into what it takes to get a girlfriend let’s talk about why having a girlfriend is such a good thing.

Maybe one day you’ll have a family and start on a great life with one partner for many years. Before that happens having a girlfriend is a lot of fun. You have someone who cares about you and thinks about you all of the time. You have someone who wants to make you feel good and make you happy. You have someone to share inside jokes with and you can tell your secrets to.

A girlfriend is a great support person to have and can encourage you when you are down and lonely.

Because humans were meant to procreate, wanting a girlfriend isn’t a feeling that will ever go away if you don’t have one. You are biologically wired to want sexual comfort, and community with a mate. If you are a straight man, wanting a woman means creating balance between the masculine and the feminine, something that the body craves.

So don’t accept or believe that women are worthless. Don’t go around thinking that you have been burned by women, and you dislike them. The body forgets far more easily than the brain. This is why you want a woman in your life, even when you are negative about women. It is natural. So to get a girlfriend, you have to first understand the reasons that you don’t have one.

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The Dating Truth
The Dating Truth

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I’m Fauna Solomon the founder of The Dating Truth a digital resource for dating advice. We offer the most diverse advice on modern dating available.

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