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How To Let A Man Pursue You

The Dating Truth
4 min readFeb 2, 2021

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The dating landscape has changed. There are more ways to connect with people than ever before. While this isn’t necessarily a bad thing, many women find themselves in an interesting dilemma. To pursue or not pursue? That is the question. Ultimately, pursuing a man is the best way to get a man. This puts the ball in your court and ensures that you get what you want by asking for it, and going after it.

All women aren’t prepared to pursue a man full stop. And just because it has a high success rate doesn’t make it the solution for every woman. If you want a man to pursue you then there are certain steps you have to take to make that happen. Remember that not every man is the type to pursue but most are. Some just don’t get the chance and find that women will take over the role of pursuing before he gets a chance to.

Yes, some women are that aggressive. If you would rather have a man pursue you than the other way around there are a few ways to make that happen.

Let Your Interest Be Known

As little kids you probably played the Red Light, Yellow Light, Green Light game. You and your friends stood in a row waiting for someone to yell green light so you could sprint to the finish line. Dating isn’t too different. In order for a man to pursue you, he must feel like he has the green light. This means making it…

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The Dating Truth
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I’m Fauna Solomon the founder of The Dating Truth a digital resource for dating advice. We offer the most diverse advice on modern dating available.

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