If Women Did This, It Would Change Their Dating Lives Forever

I heard someone say that in a time of war, what value does a book have?
We hear terms like worth, and value, often and almost interchangeably when it comes to dating. Wanting to be valued, and feel valued, are almost a part of the human condition.

We need to know that we are wanted, but why? Books are incredibly valuable but in a time of war, they might not be the most comforting item to a soldier. But it doesn’t change the value, just the appeal.

The word that should never leave your mind is appeal.

You have value. You are worthy, and for the right person, you are perfect.
You won’t appeal to everyone, and that is the truth. Not everyone will appeal to you. They might not fit your needs, at the moment, but it doesn’t change their worth or value.

Even your favorite food loses its appeal when you’re sick, or stuffed. Not the most appetizing piece of cake, or roast chicken would appeal to someone just recovering from food poisoning. The idea being, we get so caught up in everything being a perfect fit, that we lose sight of the most critical element of dating; timing.

If something or someone doesn’t show up at the right time, it loses its appeal. Not it’s value.