If Women Want A Relationship They Should Pursue Men

One of the most popular posts on The Dating Truth is about pursuing men. Should women do it, and if so how? There is one answer — yes. But as Joe Dispenza always says, “It’s not enough to know, but you have to know how.” As you might have heard, a yes without a how, is a wish. So if you want to find love, partnership, and possibly marriage then here is how it’s done.

Why Should Women Pursue Men

What might come to mind when you think of ‘pursue’ is ‘chasing’. Women shouldn’t chase men, because anything you chase will run. Just ask a fox. Women shouldn’t chase men because it’s not the woman who needs the man but the other way around.

Women shouldn’t chase men because it’s not the woman who needs the man but the other way around.

To pursue a man is much different. The word itself is simply a linguistic shortcut to describe a more complicated process. The definition of pursue that you should employ is: to continue or proceed along.

Despite what you have heard in the past, or even have been conditioned to believe. It is okay, to be led by a man who is a leader. Imagine that you are on the way to a destination. You hire a car to take you to where you want to go. You have given the driver directions but halfway through the ride, you decide that you know best, so you hop into the front seat of the car, push the chauffeur aside and promptly take the wheel.

This sounds ridiculous right? But women do this to men all of the time. They give a man permission to date them, and instead of following along the process, they take the reins. To pursue a man is simply to decide which man you want and then follow the process. You are in control without having to be in charge.

You are in control without having to be in charge.

How to Choose a Man

Most people have a hard time making decisions because they feel deeply uncomfortable being wrong. The reason that you believe you could be wrong, and choose the wrong person is because you feel that the responsibility of being with the right person is all up to you but it’s not.