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The Right Way to Ask a Woman On a Date
“Right now, you are knowing who you are at depth or you are avoiding it. You are relaxing and embodying your soul’s purpose on earth or you are resisting your calling.”
Men have never been held to a high standard for self-awareness. The messages that most men receive about how to be a man endorse ignoring yourself i.e your emotions and promote acting ‘as if’ until you feel powerful.
‘Fake it ’til you make it’ is advice designed for men drenched in toxic masculinity.
Despite the various resources for advice, dating seems even more complicated today than ever. Most adults are never taught how to date but instead receive instruction from the world around them. Some take cues from movies and television, others from books, and others from their friends, siblings, and mentors.
The one thing to understand about dating is that it’s not an accident. Relationships don’t start through chance. In order to meet women, date them, and eventually enter into a relationship with one, you have to understand and develop your own process.
Each morning the average adult will get out of bed, brush their teeth, and begin the day. We all have morning routines but I guarantee you that few routines are exactly the same. In dating, you have to develop a routine…
