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This is Why You’re Single Right Now
Most people can’t imagine, for the life of them, why they are still single.
The first thought that comes to mind is typically, ‘I haven’t met the right person’. If you’ve found yourself wondering why the right person hasn’t come into your life, or why you seem to scare all of your options in dating away. Even if you just don’t have the faintest idea why you haven’t been able to connect with someone and get into a relationship, this article is for you.
The Right One Isn’t a Description
In order to get into a relationship, you have to be crystal clear on who you want to date,
This isn’t debatable. For single men and women who argue that so-and-so didn’t have a list, or point out a couple they know who just met and fell in love, there are hundreds of couples who did have lists. Who knew exactly what they wanted from a partner and set out to find it.
If this seems unromantic or excessive to you, then you are not looking for love, you’re trying to get lucky. On one hand, we have no idea what our lives are going to consist of. The events of our existence are not up to us. They are unpredictable. It is still worthwhile to at least pretend to steer the ship. It’s worthwhile to support the universe with clarity.
