You’ll Stay Single Because You’re Dating All Wrong

Do you believe that there is a right and wrong way to date? Well there is, and most single adults are doing it wrong. The first step to dating the right way is to understand the purpose of dating. We meet more people today than ever before. The average person will cross paths with thousands more people than in past generations. It is in fact, the easiest time in history to meet people. But it takes more than meeting people to start dating the right way.

To understand the difference between dating the right way and doing it all wrong, the distinction of what dating is needs to be made. Dating is not spending time with a bunch of strangers hoping to build a connection. Dating is not meeting once, and then writing off each Tinder match one by one. Dating is the process of getting to know someone as a means of establishing their viability as a partner.

Dating Someone Vs. Meeting People

In the past, the challenge of dating was meeting people. You would need to place a personal’s ad, attend an event, or singles mixer, even solicit your friends for candidates, just to meet a potential match. The value in most of those scenarios, is that some of the vetting is already done for you. Only those who felt they fit the description would reply to your personal ad. A blind date from a friend, or…